Alot of mistake have been made by people trying to become who they are not supposed to be, copying their fellow human being.
You need to discover yourself before seeing yourself as a loser. I believe nobody is useless in life, we human only find it difficult when we are not in the place we are destined to be.
Thing get hard for human who is destined to be a footballer but ended up as a police officer. The person can never get it right because he was destined to be scoring goals not arresting criminals.
Some parents choose career for their children and this really affect alot of people in life. If a child want to be an artist please support him because being an artist doesn’t mean he will not make it in life.
A young man once told someone about how his father wanted him to be a doctor but he wanted to be a musician, yeah he loves to sing. He find it very hard to focus at the university till he dropped out. The young man say he will never forgive his father because he stopped him from achieving his dream.
A well known musician in Nigeria who’s father is a qualified lawyer, his father push him into studying law but after going to university and law school, after collecting his certificate he gave it to his father that he has fulfilled what his father want that now he want to satisfy himself. He want to become who he want to be A MUSICIAN.
What you really want for your life is more important than what people want you to become. You know what you are capable of don’t let anyone push you off your limits, you know what is good for you but because you want to satisfy the people around you, you want people to see you as a nice and good person you drop want you really want and followed what others want for you. You should be able to get want you want if you really know what you want but because some human beings don’t know what they want they find it very hard to get it instead they follow others people dreams instead of following their own dreams.
Some people can never know who they are or who they are destine to be in life because they are lazy they find it hard to work for what they want, they easily give up on things that was supposed to end well. They see everything around them as misfortune not knowing that they are lazy that’s the main reason why they allow people to select their future for them. They sometimes see themselves as a loser because they are lazy to comprehend.
Discover who you are before blaming people for your misfortune. Nobody can build your future for you if you are not ready, unless you are ready to build it with that person that want to help you in building your future.
They said Heaven help those who help themselves but alot of people want human to help when they’re not even ready to help themselves. It’s only the child that raise his two hands up that his mother will carry.
Do you really know who you are?
Can you explain to people what you really want in life?
Can you explain the type of destiny you have?
Have you been practicing what you wish to become?
Thank you.
Kneelyo Akinbowale.
