1)Cheating: In every relationship rule number 1, do not cheat. If you anyone cheat it is a red flag because a cheater will always be a cheater. You can’t change a cheater unless they are ready to change. What makes your partner cheat will always come back. It is better you let the relationship end than you planning the future that will lead to your early grave.
2) Lies: A relationship that is foundation is built with lies will surely collapse one day. It is better you end the relationship than it’s collapsing when a lot things have been invested into it. Lies will surely be reviewed one day.
3) Self-centered and selfishness: Having someone who only care about his/her self as a partner will never make the relationship to end wells. If you partner is always concerned about himself/herself without having you in mind or not asking you about your own plan is an automatically Red flag. If you partner is never helping you one way or the other is also an automatic red flag because if he/she doesn’t care about you now, how will he/ she care in the future.
4) Fighting and argument: Domestic violence in every relationship doesn’t start without an argument. Most times argument leads to fight, if your argument is already leading to physical combat that’s red flag.
5) Still connecting with ex: If you partner still create time to connect with his/her ex is automatically a red flag because your ex happens to be your past and anyone that still hold on to his/her past is not ready to be in a relationship.
6) Having an opposite gender as a bestie: Having an opposite gender as a bestie who you tell things about yourself to when you have an opposite gender as your boyfriend/girlfriend is a red flag. Is not something that need to be argued on because you can’t have a girlfriend/boyfriend and find it very hard to share your secrets and thought with him/her and tell me your love him/her. It is the person you share your secrets and thought with that will love you back for who you really are. If you have someone you can share your secrets and thought with then don’t date the person.
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